Wednesday, February 10, 2010

My husband parent's are talking to his lawyer and giving false information. What can I do?

I wouldn't get all upset about what they say since it is between you and your estranged husband. He may be doing this just to annoy you. Legally, the judge will decide based on pertinent facts provided with documentation from you and your estranged husband. Don't let the meddling in laws push your buttons and upset you. Focus on you and your happiness- life is too short to worry and God will avenge.My husband parent's are talking to his lawyer and giving false information. What can I do?
Get lawyered up under false pretenses.My husband parent's are talking to his lawyer and giving false information. What can I do?
Your husbands attorney should not be allowing his parents to be involved in the lawsuit whatsoever. If they are not named on the Petition then it is none of their damn business and their word has no meaning in a court of law. All you need to do honey is tell your lawyer what his parents have been doing. Your lawyer will contact your husbands lawyer and nothing will come of it.





Your husbands lawyer needs to take an ethics class if this is going on!
Do you have your own attorney? It not, get one. Tell your attorney the truth and let your attorney deal with his. Eventually, his attorney will confront your husband and his parents saying that he is not hearing that from your attorney.





It is also possible that your husband is misinforming his parents. It is very common for people to misinform their parents not wanting them to worry.
The get your own damn lawyer! That way only you can speak to them!
Your lawyer should be fighting this battle for you. Your word that you have not agreed to anything yet, should be sufficient evidence that they are lying.
Tell them that this is inappropriate behavior because lawyers are some of the only people that can take legal action, and if they found out it would be a painful experience.
Get you legal aid! and let lawyers handle it...


P.S: make sure this issue is between you and ur husband,you marrid him not his parents...and tell them that they need to let him act like a men! if is one...
Don't worry about it. Let them say whatever they want. The attorneys will work it all out. Unless they have a signed agreement, they have no proof that you've agreed to anything. In the end what they say will not have an impact on the proceedings. They're trying to do what's best for their son and don't realize that they're only making fools of themselves.
Get a lawyer of your own, and then tell your lawyer that you will no longer discuss child custody matters in the Presence of anyone else except your ex husband his lawyer and your lawyer. And, that's it....
It doesn't matter what his parents say or do in the lawyer's office....and I'm surprised the lawyer is even listening to them...hasn't he cut the chord yet, your husband?





Talk is cheap.....besides, Both lawyers talk to each other, and when HIS lawyer speaks to YOUR lawyer it will be very clear what is and isn't true.....YOUR lawyer will set HIS lawyer straight, in a very polite and professional way.





In the end, all that matters is the legally drawn up agreement approved by both attorney's and with BOTH your signature and your husband's, presented to the judge for approval. Hearsay from his parents with regards to matters between you %26amp; your husband your lawyer and his will confirm before they 1) believe it 2) act on it. Just because his parents say so is nothing to HIS lawyer...it can't be anything more than that until it's confirmed. Let YOUR lawyer handle it....good luck.





Been There, Done That, the ex's Lawyer wouldn't even listen to anyone but the ex (had an aunt in law involved)...and the judge refused to let her sit in on any of the hearings...it'll be okay.

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